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LDR. Chinese dating Indian man from India
by Sindy
I'm dating an Indian man. At first it's just a friendship for I know dating a guy from different race will be almost impossible plus we are in different country, culture. We meet when I was shopping at his store, from there we started. As first I don't believe him as I am a tourist, thinking he is just out for fun. As we talk, we date, I get to know I'm his first love..he wants to marry me..he talk to me about his family...his family knows about our relationship..he cares and I believe he loves me for he is not just out for sex for he is willing to stop when I say NO, and I could say it is by one single touch we would have done the deed.. Our relationship is only 7 month...dated 5 time...mostly long distance.. I'm very scared I might not be able To be lots of thing.... I still to repay my father for all the sacrifice he made so I can't just leave without giving something in return....It will be to selfish of me... I cannot not reply him as I do not know what he will be thinking especially we are in long distance relationship.. I will be giving a huge part of my independence when I move to his country as getting work is a problem... I think I might be able to adapt to the living in his country though I will be facing language and lifestyle differences , that still not adding cultural shock.. I know I survived four months but the rest of my life? That I will need to think long and hard... So one step at a time...anybody had dated an Indian..? How does you family react? Should I invite him to stay at the family house? Should I just intro him to my father as bf or friend at first? What you had given up to live in India? How did you incorporate you life into India? How do you find independence of getting a job in India? How do you find yourself to be fully dependent on the husband for everything? How you let go the comfort and safety of everything in your life for a life in future with a man you love? I don't mind any comment, advise, or critics for I need to know for I don't want to goes into wrong road nor do I want to hurt people if I'm in the wrong. | ||
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